Lost…and found!
Today, we experienced every parent’s, especially every special needs parent of a non verbal child, worst nightmare. Benajmin was missing for nearly two hours!
It was our first day of Spring Break in the Phoenix area at Jeff’s parent’s house. We had a slow morning and Benjamin was a little agitated communicating that he was ‘bored’ and wanted to scooter (we brought his adult razor non-motorized scooter with us). When Donna got home from the store, he and I went out on a paved bike trail. He on his scooter, me running behind him. We’ve done this trail a number of times before. It’s hilly and curvy with lots of fast downhill and plenty of inclines. It was pretty cool AZ morning – in the low 60s. We also scooter a lot back home with no issues.
He was happy! Big grin on his face as he scootered away. I was having a hard time keeping up with him. After much hollering at him he stopped and waited for me earlier on. But then he got on a momentum and with the combination of too many inclines and more strength than he had last year when he was on this trail, he got further and further away from me. Despite me yelling and yelling at him to stop (believe me, I can yell..just ask Jeff) he kept going and I lost sight of him. I ran as fast as I could and kept thinking I’d round a corner and catch sight of him. I never did. I kept meeting people and they said he was just ahead of me. I finally called Jeff to figure out where the trial ended and he met me. The trial ended (it’s a little over 3.5 miles) at a busy 4 lane boulevard. No sign of Benjamin.
We called 911 who responded with every resource they had. The response was amazing. They had cops in cars, on bikes, on razors scouring the area. They even had a helicopter out. They put out a community alert to all local residents and a lady saw him scootering in her neighborhood and let the police know. That’s how we found him nearly two hours later! He was a little sweaty and dirty but none the worse for the wear.
A few hours later back at John & Donna’s house Jeff and I had this conversation with him.
US: Were you aware of what happened today?
B: Yes. I was lost. I didn’t wait. You asked me to stop.
US: Why didn’t you stop?
B: Sorry. It was too hard to control my body.
US: When did you know you were lost?
B: At the end of that trail
US: Which way did you go?
B:Sidewalk ( he had to cross a really busy intersection!).
US: How did you cross the busy road?
B: There was a green light
US: Why didn’t you wait for Mom at the end of the trial or turn back?
B: I didn’t think
US: What did you hope would happen?
B: I prayed that u would find me
US: What’s the lesson you learned?
B: Not waiting is dangerous
Our hearts are so thankful this evening for the Peoria Police Department who put forth a tremendous effort to find Benjamin and especially for a God who heard the prayers of a lost boy and his distraught parents and grandparents.